Be kind to yourself ❤️
J. William Worden, a leading researcher in Grief and Loss says that "there are those who, in an attempt to make somebody feel better, start speaking about the losses and tragedies they have had in their own lives, perhaps unaware that comparing tragedies is not helpful. People in pain make us feel helpless. This helplessness can be acknowledged in a simple statement like 'I don’t know what to say to you'."
It is ok to not know what to say and to acknowledge someone's pain without adding advice, comment, or opinion. We have been bearing witnessing to unimaginable pain, so I invite you to be kind to yourself.
This week I have been in the practice of asking myself when I am moved to make a comment or add an opinion (especially on a platform as precarious as social media) who is this comment for, me or the person in pain? Is it true? It it helpful? Is it aligned with who I want to be for myself and others?
The kindness for me comes from reminding myself that this is a practice, and while simple, it is not easy, I will and have made mistakes. So I invite you to be kind to yourself in the best way you know how. Kindness can be small and you are deserving of kindness this week and all the weeks ❤️ Because when you start to truly be kind to yourself, it becomes easier to be kind to others ❤️
Thank you for being you and all that you do, I look forward to seeing you around the studio❤️
with gratitude,
Lucia (she/her/hers)
Director - Anjali Power Yoga
lucia.anjalipoweryoga@gmail.com